Toddlerhood is the beginning a new stage of independence. During this time, defiant behavior and a new awareness of surroundings is not uncommon. As they realize that the world is opening up, toddlers between the ages of 12 and 36 months of age tend to experience an increase in their need to explore new things. Toddlers will also imitate other’s behavior. Learning to express themselves and realizing the name of familiar people and objects. When toddlers are in this stage, they achieve some very important developmental milestones.
12 to 18 months: Children in this age group are becoming increasingly self-aware. It is very common for them to experience feelings of jealousy, pride, affection, frustration, fear, anger, sadness, and shame. Tantrums begin, especially when they are tired or frustrated. Young toddlers will often feel comfort when adults are nearby. They will begin to establish relationships, by exploring.
19 to 24 months
Young toddlers become very observant of other’s emotions. As they explore the world around them, they may check for their parent’s facial expressions in order to test their limits. While still participating in parallel play, they may begin to actively play with children.
25 to 30 months
During this age, imagination is increasing. This leads to make-believe, fears about imaginary monsters, and other common things like the dark. Two year olds tend to increase their understanding and use of language related to emotions. They begin to find ways to label their feelings and show awareness for others feelings. Through their friendships, they will often begin to show empathy and affection. They may also try to give basic help such as patting or hugging a child who is sad. Two and a half year olds will continue to find it difficult to regulate emotions. Frustration can bring on emotional meltdowns and tantrums. They look to adults for comfort when conflict happens.
30 to 36 months
At this age, it is common for toddlers to have imaginary friends and this can help your child prepare for making real friends. Toddlers are learning how to get close with someone else besides their parents. Toddlers will also experience huge intellectual, social, and emotional changes that will help them explore their new world. During this stage there is a large range of what is “normal.”
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