Language plays such an important role in our every day lives. Most people do not even realize how much we use it, and without it we would have a hard time communicating with other people.
Language can be used in just about every situation, from explaining a belief system to talking about feelings. The words that we choose to use to describe out feelings are incredibly meaningful.
In divorce, there is a possibility of using language to adopt negativity. This can lead to an increase of conflict between co-parents. The wrong use of simple phrases might end up resulting in bitterness or even feelings of anger or revenge against each other.
When co-parents take the time to use language correctly, a foundation of collaboration and partnership can be constructed. Many divorce terms lead to negativity, turning parents against each other.
There are some divorce terms that might leave parents feeling a certain way about the process: plaintiff, defendant, custody, alimony, visitation, child Support, and many others.
In the divorce procedure, parents can suggest that kinder words be used, such as using “parenting time” in lieu of “custody” or “visitation.” Click here to read more about the language of divorce.
In a divorce, language can make a big difference. This will carry over into your co-parenting relationship. Lambert Law Office is a family attorney in Vancouver WA who understand how emotional this process can be. Click here to speak to us about your unique situation today.