It might be odd to read a headline on the blog of Lambert Law Office, a compassionate divorce attorney practicing in Vancouver WA, that asks “Is it a good idea to consider a divorce?”
What are we trying to do? Go out of business?
It’s a serious question parents should ask if they find their marriage struggling.
One, if a divorce is used as an escape, it’s very likely you’ll make all the same mistakes in your next relationship. Qualities that support a positive and healthy marriage include:
- Fighting/arguing fairly
- Communicating effectively
- Having empathy for your partner
- Responding to your partner’s needs
Two, a divorce may end your romantic relationship with your spouse, but he or she will still be in your life as the parent of your child.
It may sound cliché, but you owe it to your children to exhaust every option before divorcing. Seeking professional help can be very helpful if both parties agree to give it a chance.
There are always exceptions, but divorce should be avoided. It’s probable that a divorce won’t be the highlight of your life, and it probably won’t be embraced by your children.
This article is indebted to the Child-Centered Divorce Blog.
If you’ve tried everything to keep your family together, but realize it’s time to move on from your marriage, contact Lambert Law Office today. Lambert Law Office is a knowledgeable and competent divorce attorney practicing in Vancouver WA.