It is extremely important for you and your co-parent to find a way to function together for the sake of your children. Developing this relationship can range from easy to extremely difficult depending on your unique situation. The ultimate goal is to develop a respectful and collaborative relationship.
This is easier said than done if you are dealing with a difficult co-parent who is either controlling or enjoys conflict. A few examples of behaviors that may need to be put in check include: calling too often, sending text too often, making children relay requests, not allowing a phone call to come to an end, not approving of you having a different opinion, and creating a conflict in front of your child.
In some scenarios, opposites attract, so it is not uncommon for a person who avoids conflict to marry someone who enjoys it. This cycle can be very damaging to the co-parenting relationship. This can be avoided by sticking to the limits you set and by keeping your ex in check. Click here for some more in-depth information about dealing with a difficult co-parent.
Here at Lambert Law Office, we see co-parents who vary in personality. We know how to handle this process and want you to know you are not alone. Click here to contact your trusted family attorney in Vancouver WA today.